Imagine two scenarios.

FIRST, have you been to a wedding where your connection with the couple was weak? Maybe you were just a college friend, a plus-one, or a family member who hasn’t seen them since last Thanksgiving…

Did you leave feeling like the event was sort of fun, but just on the surface level?

NOW, consider this: Have you ever felt a profound connection to someone you’ve never met? Maybe even someone who doesn’t exist, like a fictional character? Have you laughed or cried on their behalf?

How is it possible that you feel a deeper connection in the second scenario than in the first?

The answer lies in our inherent affinity for stories. The human brain simply thrives on stories. Whether it’s witnessing Marty McFly’s journey in “Back to the Future” or navigating the twists and turns of the latest K-drama, our minds become deeply invested in the characters. We come to care about them and want to know what happens next.

That’s why sharing your love story is such a pivotal component of your wedding. It’s the key to deepening your connection with family and friends and making them part of your journey.

In an ideal world, you’d have the luxury of sitting down over coffee with each guest before the big day, regaling them with tales of how you met, the surprise proposal, and your dreams for the future. Although that level of personal interaction may not always be feasible, here are some other creative ways to share your story:

• Print Your Love Story: Write down your love story and include it in your wedding invitations or programs.
• Capture It on Video: Record yourselves on video sharing your story and answering common questions about the two of you. You can share this recording on social media or, for a more personalized touch, include it as a QR code in your custom-made invitations.
• Include Your Journey in Your Vows: If you are writing personalized vows, include some of the sweet details of your story that your guests may not otherwise know.

Sharing your story is the single most effective way to make your wedding truly memorable. It gives your guests a priceless opportunity to feel connected to you and become an integral part of your life moving forward.

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Photos by Viby Creative.